Mass shootings, movie-theatre massacres, the day’s headlines can be scary for anyone.
It’s one reason why parenting experts say it’s important to talk to your kids to start a dialogue as soon as possible.
Today’s Parent Editor-in-Chief Karine Ewart says it sets the foundation for the future by allowing them to ask questions.
But she adds you may want to edit the info depending on the child.
“Start as they soon as they ask questions or as soon as they become aware of what’s going on in society,” says Ewart.
A mother herself, Ewart suggests look for signs coming from your son or daughter.
“If they watch TV shows with violence, play with toy guns, play video games with that type of behaviour……these are all teachable moments,” she says.
Dealing with specific headlines she adds depends on the family.
“As a child I was shielded because my Mom thought it would be too scary,” says Ewart. “My daughter watches the news and gets really upset; I started this dialogue where she could speak with me a long time ago.
“You can never tell a child too often your job is to love them protect them and do the best you can,” she says.
Sometimes Ewart adds it is okay to lie, adding you can’t promise that nothing will ever 100 per cent happen to them.
“Remind them that there are adults that have jobs to keep their community safe like politicians and police officers,” she says.
And if it hits close to home, the editor-in-chief says never be afraid to ask for professional help if it’s needed.
“You don’t want this to grow in years to come,” says Ewart
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Dealing with your child and the day’s scary headlines
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